in the Unitive State--not all have the stigmata.
"He asked me if I loved Him. I wept, for you know, Father, whom I have loved more than Jesus. I have loved myself, and oftentimes creatures and pleasures. What could I answer to Jesus? I wept for a long time, and that was my reply. It is Jesus alone whom I should love, and I have never loved Him as I should."
-St Gemma Galgani- See more at: http://www.stgemmagalgani.com/2009/01/stigmata-scourgings-crown-of-thorns.html#sthash.DJ8vchqc.dpuf